People have this annoying habit of blaming their past for their present.Often times, they use this to justify bad behaviors.Its a cliche, a very ugly one.It really gets in the way of doing good.You want to avenge for things that are in the past

Your neighbor and  some kid bullied you,we get it but you now 23.That should not be a factor.Your dad was never around,  but you survived it.Some did not are still dealing with worst problems.

I come across very old guys who are still lashing out at every thing.I am not exempting myself though! get over it dude, chic.No one’s past is perfect and the world will never be a bed of roses.So when you got out of a bad relationship and he/she made you feel like trash.It is not fine but it should not bother with people around you.Deal with it like an adult.

Honestly, its tiring to hear you whining,complaining and get angry over petty issues.Your history should not matter, if you think it sabotaged your life, then its you who is standing between your future and past.

Blaming your parents is  a big problem,if you think they deserve anger,resentment ,then my friend you are lost , it adds no positive value to your life.You will turn 40, someone’s parent and still holding that stupid grudge and bitterness.

You need  a reality check,the habit of blaming your folks could be the reason you never grow in life.The baby inside you could be the destructive spirit,a huge factor in your bad decisions.

If your parents did not teach you anything good and positive, then let life teach you.In one way or another you will make changes and generations  to come.

So. My friend get over it!



THis is nice

Cozmo Kev Tales

The truth will surface eventually when, with delight you will welcome yourself landing at your own particular door.
In your own particular mirror and each will grin at the other’s welcome,
And say, stay here. Eat
You will love again the more peculiar who was your self.
Give wine. Give bread. Give back your heart to itself, to the more bizarre who has cherished you all your life, whom you disregarded for another, who knows you by heart.
Bring down the affection letters from the bookshelf, the photos, the edgy notes,
peel your own picture from the mirror.
Sit. Devour your life.

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Must Read books,2017.

Hardcover, 40 pages Published January 24th 2017 by Viking Books for Young Readers Source: Publisher Mitford at the Hollywood Zoo is about the assistant to an editor of a fashion magazine who apparently is a whiz designer, accessorizer, and everything in between. The picturebook satires the fashion world especially the world as shown to us…

via Fashionista Picturebooks: Mitford at the Hollywood Zoo by Donald Robertson and A Season to Bee by Carlos Aponte — The Book Wars

Slow the rush..

It has become the norm of our fast-paced world to expect everything to happen instantaneously, and for us to become instantly aggravated when it doesn’t. The result is that we can feel frantic and rushed, stressed and unhappy nearly all the time..

It really costs nothing to be could loose  a lot of time worrying how you going to get what you want at the moment.That time could have instead be of great help to help you do more important stuff; learn more,meet more people, get new hobbies and identify more talent you may be having or rather acquire new skills in handling situations

Patience is not the ability to wait but the ability to keep a good attitude while waiting.


Every woman desires to look pretty and stay young for a long time.preferably the whole life.Lets talk about these tips I bet you will find useful.

Maintain your Weight
Do not overeat!
Often times,people have a habit of eating 3 big meals a day, but when you desire to lose weight (or to stay thin), it’s better to appropriate right habits of eating – try to eat smaller portions, but 3 times or more a day, this way you will boost your metabolism and it will be a lot easier to maintain that great figure.

Drink one glass of water before or after you eat, depending on your preference. Water will fill in the space in your tummy and you will feel satisfied without overeating, and your body will stay very hydrated!
Get into the gym.
Exercising is proved to be a great mood booster, it can help you to reduce stress and to keep your skin looking healthy. So, don’t neglect this “friend of your beauty” sport.
Always use sunscreen.
UV rays cause wrinkling problems and other signs of ageing. If your skin is sensitive, I would recommend to find sunscreen protection cream with natural minerals – zinc oxide or titanium dioxide. Consider your skin when staying out in hot sun.
Get enough sleep
This helps to boost your energy levels,relief stress and keep your weight down.Physical intimacy is also a good thing..Great and healthy love life helps:While making love with your partner,your body cultivates the hormone of happiness which not only strengthens your immune system and boosts your happiness but also helps you stay younger for longer.

Exfoliate your skin regularly.
Exfoliation is one of the best way to keep your skin soft and glowing, it helps to keep your pores from clogging (keeps acne under control), helps with uneven skin tone, keeps lines and wrinkles in check . Ask the specialist’s advise to find the best product that suits your skin type.
Eat healthy.
This is one of the crucial habits you can appropriate in order to stay beautiful and youthful for a long time.So, include fruits, vegetables and fish into your diet!

Focus on the bright side.
Cultivate positive mental attitude, laugh a lot and chose to be happy. So, look at the glass half full instead of half empty, notice all the great and positive things that happen to you and be thankful for them and remember to smile often. This way you will stay beautiful, young and attractive for longer.
Get into the gym.
Exercising is proved to be a great mood booster, it can help you to reduce stress and to keep your skin looking healthy. So, don’t neglect this “friend of your beauty” – sport.
Feel young at heart
Embrace your inner child and always wake up to the excitement and beauty of life!Feel young and you will be young.